Most people live like the goal is to finish. Like the point were simply to get to the end. Which in their minds is a long way off. So they live cautiously. They protect themselves. They avoid getting hurt. They play defense. They’re wrong. The end isn’t far. We’re born on the precipice, we spend [...]
The Decider
Stubborn people wont change shit about themselves. They insist that every bad habit is just part of who they are. When they’re rude to waiters. Part of who they are. When they hit on girls like total creepers and then laugh about it like they didn’t actually want to do well. Part of who they [...]
Embarrassment is a bullshit emotion
We all want to be liked. To be held in high esteem. We want the whole damn world to think we’re great. So when we know other people are judging us, we feel out of whack. We chuck whatever it is that jeopardizes their respect for us so they keep on loving us, keep on [...]
Step 1 for living a Kickass life: stop “just being yourself”
This has got to be the number one growth-killing piece of advice that gets thrown around out there. “Just be yourself.” We hear it all the time. Especially when we want advice for getting a girl and usually when things aren’t going so well. “Just be yourself,” we are told. So we remain whatever we are. We continue doing [...]
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